Infamous85 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #101 Posted October 1, 2010 I would just leave her alone. She gave you hints that she doesn't want to be bothered. If you feel it's worth it then do what you were gonna do. I don't think she'd like it but maybe she will, idk. Some people need to actually experience things in order to learn. I can't believe some of the comments, very immature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Urbanfortitude Posted October 1, 2010 Share #102 Posted October 1, 2010 I would just leave her alone. She gave you hints that she doesn't want to be bothered. If you feel it's worth it then do what you were gonna do. I don't think she'd like it but maybe she will, idk. Some people need to actually experience things in order to learn. I can't believe some of the comments, very immature. Yeah, and publically announcing that he's stalking a younger girl and plans to confront her again (more than likely in the same manner) is totally adult-like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Infamous85 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #103 Posted October 1, 2010 Yeah, and publically announcing that he's stalking a younger girl and plans to confront her again (more than likely in the same manner) is totally adult-like. Umm...when did I ever say that? And why would I ever say that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roadcruiser1 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #104 Posted October 1, 2010 Infamous if he acts like a kid you treat him like a kid until he grows up and discovers the world isn't a simple world where you get what you want. Thus this is how I will treat him until he grows up and realize this isn't a world where you can get what you want. Especially since he stalks this one girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SubwayGuy Posted October 1, 2010 Share #105 Posted October 1, 2010 The age is not the main issue in this case. It's her reaction to him and the fact that he's continuing to pursue her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R160 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #106 Posted October 1, 2010 Hide your kids Hide your wife Hide your kids Hide your wife and hide your husband cuz Ftrainfan is rappin errbody out here. You are so dumb. You are really dumb, for real. That song is going to be about you if you don't stop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Urbanfortitude Posted October 1, 2010 Share #107 Posted October 1, 2010 Umm...when did I ever say that? And why would I ever say that? I'm just checkin to make sure we're on the same page here. This kid is choosing to ignore the given advice about this girl and go confront this chick again. Let's face it nobody really had to even bother with this because in my opinion its just pathetic and disgusting. And no being 15 is not an excuse for his behavior because there are plenty of 15 year olds who understand body language 101 and wouldn't carry on like this. He needs to leave the chick alone, take his ass off the thread and stop carrying on over some broad who doesn't want him so the thread can get back on topic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ftrainfan Posted October 1, 2010 Share #108 Posted October 1, 2010 She's not going to give you another chance. No girl or woman will. Everything for them is how you make them feel. -Make them feel attracted and safe, they will love you DEEPLY. -Make them feel attracted, they'll be interested and they'll have fun with you but they will not sleep with you -Make them feel safe, you'll be their friend and won't get any but they will trust you and talk to you -Make them feel neither, and they will ignore you -Make them feel creeped out, and they will hate you and so will all of their friends Hey , You're not in her head buddy. not all girls act the same way. They are not programmed robots. They each have their own minds. And I'm just saying "Hi" and seeing where that goes. What's the worst that can happen the second I just say "Hi". Guys I can control myself! Don't worry. Now , if I do this tomorrow and she actually forgives me , then... I get a apology from each of you that said I'm creepy. B) If not , then I'll just walk away from her and get over it. Oh , and some of her friends still like me , so HA! As long as you think positive , and only hope the best out of something , ANYTHING is possible. Even winning over an enemy! Trust me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roadcruiser1 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #109 Posted October 1, 2010 Oh my gosh. How many times do we have to tell you she doesn't like you and it won't work. She will just think of you as a creeper and will treat you like a creep. Also her friends shouldn't be hitting on you. They are about the same age. You really need to learn the word stop. I want you to read the book Speak. If you keep doing this you are going to end up raping a girl and you will end up in jail. Stop ok just push your hormones to the stop lever and grow up because I will treat you like this until you grow up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Infamous85 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #110 Posted October 1, 2010 Hide your kidsHide your wife Hide your kids Hide your wife and hide your husband cuz Ftrainfan is rappin errbody out here. You are so dumb. You are really dumb, for real. That song is going to be about you if you don't stop. Haha that was just playing in my head. But I would've left her alone a long time ago. When someone says they hate you then they're not worth it, that was a red flag. I think she has every right to feel awkward, I would too to be honest. It's gonna end up going around the school and when you regret it there's nothing you can do. He'll learn but I still think shouting "rapist" is inappropriate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LRG Posted October 1, 2010 Share #111 Posted October 1, 2010 You know what, I guess we've all wasted our keystrokes in this entire thread talking to FAIL TRAIN about his obsession issue with this girl, who I personally feel is too young at this point in life. If it's an 18 year old and a 21 year old then I can understand but right now I can't see this working out so well, I'm sorry. DO as you wish but I personally think you're wasting your time and energy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SubwayGuy Posted October 1, 2010 Share #112 Posted October 1, 2010 Hey , You're not in her head buddy. not all girls act the same way. They are not programmed robots. They each have their own minds. And I'm just saying "Hi" and seeing where that goes. What's the worst that can happen the second I just say "Hi". Guys I can control myself! Don't worry. Now , if I do this tomorrow and she actually forgives me , then... I get a apology from each of you that said I'm creepy. B) If not , then I'll just walk away from her and get over it. Oh , and some of her friends still like me , so HA! As long as you think positive , and only hope the best out of something , ANYTHING is possible. Even winning over an enemy! Trust me! I don't care about what you do and it's not a bet, and I'm not trying to be "right" or win anything. I'm giving you advice that will help you for the rest of your life if you follow it. If you choose not to take it, that's your right. Part of growing up is learning that you can't do everything you set your mind to. You can't control other people. Some lessons have to be learned the hard way, so it is what it is. You've got to be honest with yourself before you can be honest with other people. While every person is different, that doesn't mean that there aren't certain patterns of behavior that are consistent across ALL people. Remember you're 15. You don't have all the answers. Part of growing up is acknowledging that. So I don't "trust you", it's nothing personal, I just "trust me" more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
INDman Posted October 1, 2010 Share #113 Posted October 1, 2010 It may not be statutory rape, the laws vary by state. However if she finds him creepy he needs to move on to someone else. It is, in any state sex between two individuals under the age of consent is statutory rape. In the state of New York, the age of consent is 17 if the older party is UNDER 21, but if the older person is 21, the legal age is 18. That said, two kids do have sex while 16 or under, that is statutory rape. The chances of someone getting charged with that is very low unless some 16 YO knocks up is girl, then the parent s can have him arrested so that he can be forced to pay child support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SubwayGuy Posted October 1, 2010 Share #114 Posted October 1, 2010 It is, in any state sex between two individuals under the age of consent is statutory rape. In the state of New York, the age of consent is 17 if the older party is UNDER 21, but if the older person is 21, the legal age is 18. That said, two kids do have sex while 16 or under, that is statutory rape. The chances of someone getting charged with that is very low unless some 16 YO knocks up is girl, then the parent s can have him arrested so that he can be forced to pay child support. Yup, I stopped worrying about those laws the second I didn't need to know them anymore. Thanks for posting that in the thread though, I realize my post was more than a bit vague. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
INDman Posted October 1, 2010 Share #115 Posted October 1, 2010 Jeez, after reading this thread it looks like someone wants to go to juvie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SubwayGuy Posted October 1, 2010 Share #116 Posted October 1, 2010 Haha that was just playing in my head. But I would've left her alone a long time ago. When someone says they hate you then they're not worth it, that was a red flag. I think she has every right to feel awkward, I would too to be honest. It's gonna end up going around the school and when you regret it there's nothing you can do. He'll learn but I still think shouting "rapist" is inappropriate. Railfans with no experience with women who hear about sex or relationships tend to react like 3rd graders when they do, so that's why they're shouting "rapist" because they think it's funny when all it does is make them look stupid and immature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ftrainfan Posted October 1, 2010 Share #117 Posted October 1, 2010 I don't care about what you do and it's not a bet, and I'm not trying to be "right" or win anything. I'm giving you advice that will help you for the rest of your life if you follow it. If you choose not to take it, that's your right. Part of growing up is learning that you can't do everything you set your mind to. You can't control other people. Some lessons have to be learned the hard way, so it is what it is. You've got to be honest with yourself before you can be honest with other people. While every person is different, that doesn't mean that there aren't certain patterns of behavior that are consistent across ALL people. Remember you're 15. You don't have all the answers. Part of growing up is acknowledging that. So I don't "trust you", it's nothing personal, I just "trust me" more. Listen I'm just doing this. Just wish me luck. I'm signing off now so don't bother bugging me.:mad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
INDman Posted October 1, 2010 Share #118 Posted October 1, 2010 Listen I'm just doing this. Just wish me luck. I'm signing off now so don't bother bugging me.:mad: I think you have ran past the line in EDP territory. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LRG Posted October 1, 2010 Share #119 Posted October 1, 2010 Listen I'm just doing this. Just wish me luck. I'm signing off now so don't bother bugging me.:mad: Alrightee then, but don't say we didn't warn you!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan05979 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #120 Posted October 1, 2010 Saturday's front cover of the POST should be interesting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roadcruiser1 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #121 Posted October 1, 2010 The girl is Kalila and the boy is Earl. Like I said I will treat him like a kid till he learns and this is what he is doing right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roadcruiser1 Posted October 1, 2010 Share #122 Posted October 1, 2010 I am sorry but I like reading the NY Times. Though it might make headlines there too!. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SubwayGuy Posted October 1, 2010 Share #123 Posted October 1, 2010 Listen I'm just doing this. Just wish me luck. I'm signing off now so don't bother bugging me.:mad: OK You gotta do what you gotta do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SubwayGuy Posted October 1, 2010 Share #124 Posted October 1, 2010 The girl is Kalila and the boy is Earl. Like I said I will treat him like a kid till he learns and this is what he is doing right now. <image removed> Guy, the stupid pictures aren't funny. If you're going to post humor, be funny. If not don't. Kthxbye. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrainFanatic Posted October 1, 2010 Share #125 Posted October 1, 2010 I just wonder how this girl would react if she saw this thread... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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