Jennifer sends a message to bullies, Her Way!

[JennM7Lover]

For everyone who hates bullies,and people that hurt and disrespect others, this is my message to them, and its from the heart. I wrote this on Google+, today.And I'm not going to apologize to the bullies for my foul language, but I will apologize to all of you for the language here, but that's from my heart...I habe a voice, and I think everyone has to hear, or read, rather, what I have to say to bullies and people who hurt and disrespect others.

 

https://plus.google.com/117296284672092858203/posts/c1zvC8C3VzX

[realizm]

I'll give you a word of advice from personal experience: Handle the situations you may come across when you confront bullies at school, in the street, or on the net for that matter. But choose your battles carefully. Because once you get into it (fistfights, or fights with weapons) with a bully in the street, or some punk trying to rob you and you f**k the guy or girl up for it, many times the NYPD is not going to care who started it, they will put both the victim -and- the perp in cuffs and even in central booking. Real talk.

 

 

[JennM7Lover]

I'll give you a word of advice from personal experience: Handle the situations you may come across when you confront bullies at school, in the street, or on the net for that matter. But choose your battles carefully. Because once you get into it (fistfights, or fights with weapons) with a bully in the street, or some punk trying to rob you and you f**k the guy or girl up for it, many times the NYPD is not going to care who started it, they will put both the victim -and- the perp in cuffs and even in central booking. Real talk.

 

 

 

You're right..but let me say this..And again, from the heart. I have been bullied growing up..I've been verbally bullied, I'm a victim.of rape, I've been cyber-bullied, and called heartless names and heartless stuff. But a fighter? That's a big no in my book, okay? Jennifer Marie Banks is no fighter with fists, alright? I fight with words instead of fistsm Do you think I'm gonna waste time in jail jon assault charges? Do you think its worth payback from everything that my parents, ex best friends, and my ex girlfriend did to me? Hell no it's not! Me and my legally married stepmothers have been hurt, talked about, so much that its made me reach my boiling point! Okay? I'm sick of bullies, I'm sick of being huet and cheated on and damn it I think its high time I began to use my voice! I've also been disrespected! Do you think I deserve to het disrespected by my ex best friends? Do you think I deserve to be a victim of rape? Hell no I don't! Do you think its time that I speak out on such hate?! Towards me, my lesbian stepmothers? Why hell yeah!!

[peacemak3r]

Love your heart on this but I don't think posting your full name is a wise choice on a public forum.

[realizm]

You're right..but let me say this..And again, from the heart. I have been bullied growing up..I've been verbally bullied, I'm a victim.of rape, I've been cyber-bullied, and called heartless names and heartless stuff. But a fighter? That's a big no in my book, okay? (deleted) is no fighter with fists, alright? I fight with words instead of fistsm Do you think I'm gonna waste time in jail jon assault charges? Do you think its worth payback from everything that my parents, ex best friends, and my ex girlfriend did to me? Hell no it's not! Me and my legally married stepmothers have been hurt, talked about, so much that its made me reach my boiling point! Okay? I'm sick of bullies, I'm sick of being huet and cheated on and damn it I think its high time I began to use my voice! I've also been disrespected! Do you think I deserve to het disrespected by my ex best friends? Do you think I deserve to be a victim of rape? Hell no I don't! Do you think its time that I speak out on such hate?! Towards me, my lesbian stepmothers? Why hell yeah!!

 

I know someone who was a victim of rape, an Japanese girl. People will tell you on this forums, I can only relate indirectly to the everlasting trauma she experienced. I knew another girl, a Korean girl, she was trapped in the sex trade, in the pornography industry, she used to repeatedly scream for the goon to stop with the anal sex, getting raped on set with the cameras rolling. Heartbreaking, we live in a cruel f**king world. 

 

I myself as a man had many bad very violent experiences with gangbangers that but me in a very bad situation because I retaliated with deadly force since my life and that of my ex girlfriend was being threatened with  being gangraped. Many people here on this forums know what I did, it was not pretty to say the least, I don't take violent threats in kind and in that case I took the law into my own hands, nuff sad. The gangbangers never f**ked with me ever again after that. I'll PM you on this, look in your inbox.

 

On that note:

 

On that note sister, please listen to peacemak3r, he is right, don't post your name on a public forum. It's for your protection. I do it in chat, but don't take my example. You don't want those people to start harassing you on the net. Talk to the admins or mods and have them edit that post.

 

 

 

Love your heart on this but I don't think posting your full name is a wise choice on a public forum.

[JennM7Lover]

 

I know someone who was a victim of rape, an Japanese girl. People will tell you on this forums, I can only relate indirectly to the everlasting trauma she experienced. I knew another girl, a Korean girl, she was trapped in the sex trade, in the pornography industry, she used to repeatedly scream for the goon to stop with the anal sex, getting raped on set with the cameras rolling. Heartbreaking, we live in a cruel f**king world.

 

I myself as a man had many bad very violent experiences with gangbangers that but me in a very bad situation because I retaliated with deadly force since my life and that of my ex girlfriend was being threatened with being gangraped. Many people here on this forums know what I did, it was not pretty to say the least, I don't take violent threats in kind and in that case I took the law into my own hands, nuff sad. The gangbangers never f**ked with me ever again after that. I'll PM you on this, look in your inbox.

 

On that note:

 

On that note sister, please listen to peacemak3r, he is right, don't post your name on a public forum. It's for your protection. I do it in chat, but don't take my example. You don't want those people to start harassing you on the net. Talk to the admins or mods and have them edit that post.

 

 

 

 

You're right..I'm truly sorry about that..I am..I'm just so filled with rage right now.. :'( I've just been dumped by my ex girlfriend and its hurt me so much. Its pushed me to the wall, amd I took my anger, my frustration out on here, and I know that has to be a stupid idea. I'm not going off topic on this. Its July 13, 2013. Its been the worst day in my life.

[realizm]

No need to apologize. You are only human. We all are.

It's time to throw the past behind you look forward and move on to better things, as a difficult mindset. You saw my PM about a tragedy that happened that transcends even what I publicly told you in this thread. I can guarantee you that most men would have committed suicide if they went through what I did. But I love life too much. I will not quit.

 

Time is a healer, it's true. Keeping it moving, don't stop, grieve, cry, then heal, get up and walk, a day at a time. Eventually that pain will leave, and you will be happy again. I'm telling you from experience, I know.

[JennM7Lover]

No need to apologize. You are only human. We all are.

It's time to throw the past behind you look forward and move on to better things, as a difficult mindset. You saw my PM about a tragedy that happened that transcends even what I publicly told you in this thread. I can guarantee you that most men would have committed suicide if they went through what I did. But I love life too much. I will not quit.

 

Time is a healer, it's true. Keeping it moving, don't stop, grieve, cry, then heal, get up and walk, a day at a time. Eventually that pain will leave, and you will be happy again. I'm telling you from experience, I know.

 

Its hard to, but believe me I'm trying. I'm trying my best, and every time I try, I keep having thoughts of failing, letting myself down.

[realizm]

Its hard to, but believe me I'm trying. I'm trying my best, and every time I try, I keep having thoughts of failing, letting myself down.

 

The mindset is this: If you can start, get up, and start moving, take it a step at at a time, in tears if you have to. Start caring for yourself, do things that will make *you* happy. Take advantage of your single state and do things you could not do in relationship status. Eventually other women will notice and will see the sunshine shining radiant off you. By doing so, other women will be attracted to you and before you know it you will find your new love interest.

 

Those feelings of hurt? That's because you are emotionally healing. You will feel better as you start to get back into the swing of things enjoying life. I am trying to do that in the midst of my loss (you saw my PM), and applying that so I can become better the next time around I meet a good girl somewhere. I am extending this mindset I have to you.

 

Keep yourself healthy, watch it on the booze (not saying you abuse it, but I was hitting the bottle hard, but recently I got off my ass and stopped!) and keep yourself busy with everyday living and having fun. 

 

I know I am a male heterosexual, but little sister, that is besides the point, because what I've just said applies to people regardless of gender or orientation. You can do it. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. Your life hasn't ended, it just started! With good things ahead including your future love interest.  You understandably are not seeing it yet.

 

The only to shape the future is to reconstruct the present time scenerio and the f**k with the past. Don't look back. Don't dwell on the breakup, it will make you more depressed. Take it from me and my recent disaster as I related to you offline. I didn't give up, in fact now in the single state I can finally make that career change from the IT field into Nursing for one by returning to school, as I learn new hobbies, sports, get back into Muai Thai (finally), get into the railfanning game officially armed with camera, serious business (lol), meet new friends  and so forth. 

 

Don't give up little sister. Never ever, ever, give up as the late Winston Churchill would say.......

[JennM7Lover]

The mindset is this: If you can start, get up, and start moving, take it a step at at a time, in tears if you have to. Start caring for yourself, do things that will make *you* happy. Take advantage of your single state and do things you could not do in relationship status. Eventually other women will notice and will see the sunshine shining radiant off you. By doing so, other women will be attracted to you and before you know it you will find your new love interest.

 

Those feelings of hurt? That's because you are emotionally healing. You will feel better as you start to get back into the swing of things enjoying life. I am trying to do that in the midst of my loss (you saw my PM), and applying that so I can become better the next time around I meet a good girl somewhere. I am extending this mindset I have to you.

 

Keep yourself healthy, watch it on the booze (not saying you abuse it, but I was hitting the bottle hard, but recently I got off my ass and stopped!) and keep yourself busy with everyday living and having fun. 

 

I know I am a male heterosexual, but little sister, that is besides the point, because what I've just said applies to people regardless of gender or orientation. You can do it. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. Your life hasn't ended, it just started! With good things ahead including your future love interest.  You understandably are not seeing it yet.

 

The only to shape the future is to reconstruct the present time scenerio and the f**k with the past. Don't look back. Don't dwell on the breakup, it will make you more depressed. Take it from me and my recent disaster as I related to you offline. I didn't give up, in fact now in the single state I can finally make that career change from the IT field into Nursing for one by returning to school, as I learn new hobbies, sports, get back into Muai Thai (finally), get into the railfanning game officially armed with camera, serious business (lol), meet new friends  and so forth. 

 

Don't give up little sister. Never ever, ever, give up as the late Winston Churchill would say.......

 

Wow..those sets of words can't be any true-er..But..seriously though I will take what you said into consideration. I have cried a lot, and throughout the past three days, four tomorrow, I have not ate very much...and it hurts bad, like, you have no idea how much it hurts. And to this minute it still hurts..And it does not feel good in any way. They say tears cleanse the soul and heart, right? For me its the opposite. Its reduced me to tears and cuts on my left leg..I would drink my problems awag, but get this: _I AM NOT A DRINKER/SMOKER!_ And I have no intention to drink or smoke my problems away. What good will that do to me? It wont do ANY good whatsoever. So yeah. Ill take what you said into consideration.

 

And Winston Churchill did say that. Don't ever give up..For me, I felt like my time was short,felt like time has run out. I had thoughts about, well, eating the gun, and I came within inches of doing so..I was close to ending my life all because this homosexual's heart was broken. But I'm trying. I'm trying real hard to take things easy, a bit each day.

[realizm]

Sorry for the late reply, had to take a break from the net for a good week, needed it.

 

 

And Winston Churchill did say that. Don't ever give up..For me, I felt like my time was short,felt like time has run out. I had thoughts about, well, eating the gun, and I came within inches of doing so..I was close to ending my life all because this homosexual's heart was broken. But I'm trying. I'm trying real hard to take things easy, a bit each day.

 

I've been there. I was reminded that I am on a public forum, so I won't go into detail here but you know the deal. But with me, yeah, some women I've been heartsick in love with broke my heart and nearly ruined my life (literally) to the point I felt my life was done like dinner. I mean over.

 

But that's the thing. I've learned now that the best thing for me to do now is to take care of myself. No one will take care of me but myself from an emotional, economic or spiritual standpoint. So nowadays I'm focused on my inner being more or less.

 

I cut down on the drinking, and smoking (I relapsed but stopped again) and now I am seeing a psychotherapist as well as a psychiatrist to help with the severe emotional and mental blow I've endured. Exercising, (running twice a day now). Hitting the books as I start college again to transition from being an IT professional to becoming a registered nurse. That's my dream.

 

Will I get back in the dating game again looking for a good woman? Sure, but for now, I would rather stay the way I am and become a better man so that the next time around I will attract the right women instead of the wrong women that are not serious about life, responsibility, marriage, etc etc.

 

So what I am saying is that it is time for me to take advantage of my single state to do things for me. I must, it's the only way for me to recover.

 

So this is the knowledge from experience with LTR's I am extending to you. You will heal from your emotional wounds and rediscover yourself for who you are. I can personally attest to this, what I am saying, because I am going through the exact same thing.