Hey everyone,
I am also doing a lot of going back and forth. My current job is 9-5 Mon-Fri with great health and vacation. The pay is conductor starting pay. I have kids and spend all my spare time being with them. I understand and have read all your posts about how your family time is affected, schedule is absolute chaos for years until you get to pick, (which I knew and expected), and commute is crazy. And after being fairly certain about leaving my job and willing to sacrifice things to come to MTA bc it would be better long term for our family, my fiancé and I have decided to just leave NYC.
The truth is just to basically survive nowadays in NYC leaves many working class people no choice but to relocate. Even before the pandemic-depression staying here made less and less sense with a family. The MTA has historically been a great place for working people to live a decent middle class life in the city, and still is in many ways, but the long term prospect of say, owning a 3-4 bedroom place instead of perpetually renting, is not feasible in the city anymore. My family and I don't want to be lifetime renters, would like more space for our kids, and not have to spend the majority of what life we have left working 60hrs a week just to get by. I understand that I am fortunate to have a degree and other job experiences that might make me more employable in other places, but NYC is just not it anymore. The rich and wealthy, the misers and the money grubbers, have whittled away the ability of poor and working folks to survive in this city. Thankfully, because of organized labor and the power of unions, the MTA is one of the few places people can still make it happen despite having to basically sacrifice seeing your own family to do it. So with that said, I still think the MTA is great but the city not so much. Be open to moving and considering every option for you and your family. And remember, time is not something we get back at the end of this life. I'd personally rather be a little poorer but spend time with my kids on the weekend watching stupid movies and going on bike rides.
And for fellow comrades in the union movement, we need to bring back the radical labor movement in this city. It was the socialists and other radical labor organizers that won us the 40hr work week, the weekend, living wages, health coverage, and many other benefits. It's now the capitalists that have been taking them away and reactionary union leaders have been assisting them. Both parties in this country represent the ruling capitalist class and union leaders that side with either party are siding with them, the ones who have shipped our jobs thousands of miles away so they could increase their bottom lines. The ones who start the wars and then send us to fight them.
Be kind to one another and good luck with your careers at the MTA!
Solidarity!
"As a rule, large capitalists are Republicans and small capitalists are Democrats, but workingmen must remember that they are all capitalists, and that the many small ones, like the fewer large ones, are all politically supporting their class interests, and this is always and everywhere the capitalist class." Eugene V. Debs