B35 via Church Posted April 17, 2014 Share #526 Posted April 17, 2014 Sorry, but this isn't a question that you should be answering because you really don't know what I'm getting at. B35 would be better suited to answer this given his background. You're answering this question as a Latino male. Completely different situation for you and I'm being serious when I say that. Gotta agree with this.... Latino men simply have it easier than black men when dealing with black women (if anything, it is the reverse that's way more common - That is, black men running to latina women [and not white women as much, as much as black women continue to believe in their own minds] due to being fed up with the disrespect).... Some black men will categorize it as wising up in dating interracially (even pushing the fantasy of flying down to brazil & blazing all the tail they think they can get down there), but I'm not gonna go that far, because it would be no different from what the women are doing, with the throwing of some different race of mate in their opposite gender's faces.... But yeah, they act out of pocket with black men because there is a general lack of respect towards us.... Again, I'm gonna stop here because it gets rather deep..... As whatever bus you happen to be on passes through some hood (lol), you will not see a bunch of IR couplings of black men & white women...... Although thrown in black women's faces in the entertainment industry/realm/lifestyle (which is another thing, but this is a gender (a woman) specific thing rather than race specific), the entertainment industry is NOT indicative of what goes on in the average man/woman's backyard.... Interesting... They sometimes get attitudes with white women too... I've seen it on a number of occasions at Whole Foods... LOL Envy, and the thing is, white women know it too.... There have been a couple videos that have went viral, of white women pointing out black women's flaws.... Although they have every right to be pissed as f*** about that, they don't have any rebuttal to any of it..... What's generally flung white women's way is a bunch of weak insults - giving them all the more reason to feel like wonder woman.... It's no accident that Koreans siphon billions of dollars from black people (notice I didn't say just black women) with the weave industry..... What?? I have no idea what you're talking about. B35 answered my question, so that's that. I get what he's getting at.... He's implicating disingenuousness (out of you); as if to say, you already know the answers to what you're asking & wish to see the prolonged infighting b/w both genders of the black race.... Whether you are being disingenuous or not, I really don't care (just for the record)... I have no problem putting this information out there..... The fact of the matter is you chose to jump into a conversation that I was having with B35. I asked him the question specifically because I felt he was best suited to answer my question. The fact of the matter is our experiences will and do vary based on our backgrounds. Your experiences with black women will vary from my experiences and B35's experiences, and why you have such a hard time understanding that demonstrates my point. He knew what I was asking and I knew what I was asking and that's what's important. If you want to interject then that's fine, but the question was not directed towards you. What you allude to here is one of the core problems w/ my like race of women (of course, not all).... Every other race of man they believe has the potential to be successful, except for us... We are expected to be failures from birth.... Sorry, I'm not Pookie hangin out on the corner of nostrand/erasmus with his pants damn down to his knees lookin at every butt covered by some garment that passes by, from junior high school aged girls on down to overweight women old enough to be their grandmothers..... These are the types of men they tend to gun for (relationship wise) because they are easily controllable..... This is how society views the black man & the black women go right along with it - as if they're gonna get kudos from any other race of man or woman by doing so..... I don't know of one black male that ever came from a stork... Not one. I don't say (the above) to shame black women into solely being with black men, but it is the ass-kissing of men of other races & the shitting of men of their race that's a large part of the problem.... What I'm annoyed with from black men that (convey themselves as if they) wasn't raised to be a rascal or rapscallion (ok, I'll chill with the vocab & simply say "thug"), is this whole, being mad at black women (now that they're middle aged) - Simply because they didn't get the hit the same cooch they wanted to back in high school, that the thug MF-ers got to, at ease.... This isn't fair to black women because any race/nationality of chick could've been included in that, but black women only take the blame for that.... And finally, the whole thing further illustrates another stigma of black men, that entails us being not much more than solely being good at pipe-laying / blowing backs out..... -fin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realizm Posted April 17, 2014 Share #527 Posted April 17, 2014 Well I love Asian girls. Thats my input. The end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaTransitMan4608 Posted April 17, 2014 Share #528 Posted April 17, 2014 I love Hispanic women. My wish is to one day start a family with one. I honestly see no problem with it being an interracial relationship seeing as how I've come across many when I'm on NJ Transit (ran into one on the 48 recently), in various malls, even in Manhattan. And quite honestly, I don't understand why people make such a fuss over it. No bats an eye when a white man is dating a Hispanic woman. Just my two cents for now, any/all comments are welcome. EDIT: Nvm I went back a few pages and saw that I made my point about this already lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realizm Posted April 17, 2014 Share #529 Posted April 17, 2014 I love Hispanic women. My wish is to one day start a family with one. I honestly see no problem with it being an interracial relationship seeing as how I've come across many when I'm on NJ Transit (ran into one on the 48 recently), in various malls, even in Manhattan. And quite honestly, I don't understand why people make such a fuss over it. No bats an eye when a white man is dating a Hispanic woman. Just my two cents for now, any/all comments are welcome. EDIT: Nvm I went back a few pages and saw that I made my point about this already lol. I hear you. Nothing wrong with a preference as to phenotype. As for me it just happens to be with Asian kittens. Like this honey, I'd put a ring on her finger and marry her in a second: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B35 via Church Posted April 17, 2014 Share #530 Posted April 17, 2014 I love Hispanic women. My wish is to one day start a family with one. I honestly see no problem with it being an interracial relationship seeing as how I've come across many when I'm on NJ Transit (ran into one on the 48 recently), in various malls, even in Manhattan. And quite honestly, I don't understand why people make such a fuss over it. No bats an eye when a white man is dating a Hispanic woman. Just my two cents for now, any/all comments are welcome. EDIT: Nvm I went back a few pages and saw that I made my point about this already lol. Over IR dating in general, it boils down to fear..... It's a subconscious one more often than not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Via Garibaldi 8 Posted April 17, 2014 Share #531 Posted April 17, 2014 Gotta agree with this.... Latino men simply have it easier than black men when dealing with black women (if anything, it is the reverse that's way more common - That is, black men running to latina women [and not white women as much, as much as black women continue to believe in their own minds] due to being fed up with the disrespect).... Some black men will categorize it as wising up in dating interracially (even pushing the fantasy of flying down to brazil & blazing all the tail they think they can get down there), but I'm not gonna go that far, because it would be no different from what the women are doing, with the throwing of some different race of mate in their opposite gender's faces.... But yeah, they act out of pocket with black men because there is a general lack of respect towards us.... Again, I'm gonna stop here because it gets rather deep..... As whatever bus you happen to be on passes through some hood (lol), you will not see a bunch of IR couplings of black men & white women...... Although thrown in black women's faces in the entertainment industry/realm/lifestyle (which is another thing, but this is a gender (a woman) specific thing rather than race specific), the entertainment industry is NOT indicative of what goes on in the average man/woman's backyard.... Envy, and the thing is, white women know it too.... There have been a couple videos that have went viral, of white women pointing out black women's flaws.... Although they have every right to be pissed as f*** about that, they don't have any rebuttal to any of it..... What's generally flung white women's way is a bunch of weak insults - giving them all the more reason to feel like wonder woman.... It's no accident that Koreans siphon billions of dollars from black people (notice I didn't say just black women) with the weave industry..... I get what he's getting at.... He's implicating disingenuousness (out of you); as if to say, you already know the answers to what you're asking & wish to see the prolonged infighting b/w both genders of the black race.... Whether you are being disingenuous or not, I really don't care (just for the record)... I have no problem putting this information out there..... -fin As a male of mixed background, who doesn't have much interactions with black folks on a daily basis, I really would not know certain things that you've brought up, so it's certainly appreciated that you've been open and candid about speaking about it. To be honest, some of the things that I was curious about I discovered by reading up online, but as you know, you can't find out everything online. I also have to say that I agree about the point you made with regards to black women being envious of white women. I've seen it on a number of occasions in Whole Foods where a black female (cashier) will literally start making nasty comments about a white female customer even as she's right there. I said to myself, wow what is that all about, but it makes sense. I think some of this is generational though. In my more recent dealings with black females, I find that fewer of them seem to have that chip on their shoulder. They're less angry/resentful if you will and seem to just go with the flow, but in the past, when I have had one that gave me attitude, I had no problem saying that I wasn't putting up with their attitude. It was funny too because they would puff up, and I would repeat myself and then they would back down because they realized that their disposition was not going to get me riled up. If anything, they would look like the fools. I had one make the comment of "snub ass". I find it funny that because I'm mixed, the assumption is usually that I'm automatically stuck up, so they've already made a preconceived notion about me before one word comes out of my mouth. Once they see me and what I look like that's it, although as I said, of late there's been less friction other than that most recent incident. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roadcruiser1 Posted April 18, 2014 Share #532 Posted April 18, 2014 Listen women these days are so hypocritical. They say they want this, but then it's not good enough for them. You can be as nice as a butterfly, but if you don't have looks girls will just act like you don't exist. I have seen men treat women nicely yet women act like it's a one way street. Women nowadays think that they own the street. So yeah go ahead, and call me sexist, but I see it that way. Carry it on.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B35 via Church Posted April 18, 2014 Share #533 Posted April 18, 2014 VG8, I will get to your post later on... But this: Listen women these days are so hypocritical. They say they want this, but then it's not good enough for them. You can be as nice as a butterfly, but if you don't have looks girls will just act like you don't exist. I have seen men treat women nicely yet women act like it's a one way street. Women nowadays think that they own the street. So yeah go ahead, and call me sexist, but I see it that way. Carry it on.. Yeah, it's not about "equal rights" with american women, they want a full-fledged takeover.... They want the power that comes with being a man (notice I said man & not simply male) have, but they don't want the responsibility of being one.....This is exactly why 3rd wave feminism exists/persists today - to try to finish the job they feel 2nd wave feminism did not accomplish.... It is, and has always been about Penis envy.... Labeling guys that do not adhere to & side with their silly wants, are par for the course.... Sexist, Misogynist, etc. I am glad to see so many guys waking up to this shit (too bad it took a shitty economy to do it), although you will always have your blue pill ingesting white knights that continue to give these women false hope - I am not talkin about viagra either, although it fits (lol)..... What's even worse is the idea of being a "male feminist" - Yes, this actually exists... SMH.... If you can find a woman in this country that still values patriarchy, and you feel strongly about being with her, and she's not bat-shit crazy on any other front, you better snatch her up QUICK - because they are swiftly becoming a vast minority..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realizm Posted April 18, 2014 Share #534 Posted April 18, 2014 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JAvLff2FHSU&list=UUDmpY3ukz9BI4zS56fG-Y7Q I just recieved a new video via email, more thoughts from an Afro-Asian couple on their experiences being in public as an Afro-Asian couple. Wise words here. I left a comment: "Its tough being in public as an Afro-Asian couple. They give good advice here, in face of those who actually have the nerve about taking issue to this, the best thing to do is to close them out of your mind when in public, and dont allow the haters to get the better of you. I've been there when I dated a Japanese girl, and had these exact problems. So I understand exactly what this lovely couple means. +1." "A tough aspect of being in an Afro-Asian relationship is meeting family. Where the parents are not accepting. I wouldnt let that be a deterrent. No one should tell you who you should marry or not marry and quite frankly in my Americanized opinion, if confronted with racist parents, hey I am in love with the girl, deeply and will take care of her not that I owe you anything. If they cannot accept that then hey that's your problem. I love her. End of discussion." "Don & Hyo, stay strong my brother and sister. My heart goes out to you both. I wish you the best and many good times in your life hand and hand as a couple. Stay strong." I like following videos like this as it relates to my mother and father who are technically makes up with myself as the son a mixed Asian family. On top of that I can feel their pain as I can personally attest to the opposition I've received in the past simply for dating a girl who happened to be Asian. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamaica Line Posted April 18, 2014 Share #535 Posted April 18, 2014 Listen women these days are so hypocritical. They say they want this, but then it's not good enough for them. You can be as nice as a butterfly, but if you don't have looks girls will just act like you don't exist. I have seen men treat women nicely yet women act like it's a one way street. Women nowadays think that they own the street. So yeah go ahead, and call me sexist, but I see it that way. Carry it on.. Its not always about being nice. You can be a gentlemen, but at the same time don't be a push-over. Don't agree to her every will. I have more to say but I'm honestly a bit lazy to type in more..lol. But anyway its annoying whenever the topic of "girls don't like nice guys" come up.. Most of the time the "nice guys" are just too-passive push-overs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Around the Horn Posted April 18, 2014 Share #536 Posted April 18, 2014 Its not always about being nice. You can be a gentlemen, but at the same time don't be a push-over. Don't agree to her every will. I have more to say but I'm honestly a bit lazy to type in more..lol. But anyway its annoying whenever the topic of "girls don't like nice guys" come up.. Most of the time the "nice guys" are just too-passive push-overs. I was waiting for someone to say this...I totally agree Jamaica Line.Be a gentleman without being a push-over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B35 via Church Posted April 19, 2014 Share #537 Posted April 19, 2014 As a male of mixed background, who doesn't have much interactions with black folks on a daily basis, I really would not know certain things that you've brought up, so it's certainly appreciated that you've been open and candid about speaking about it. To be honest, some of the things that I was curious about I discovered by reading up online, but as you know, you can't find out everything online. I also have to say that I agree about the point you made with regards to black women being envious of white women. I've seen it on a number of occasions in Whole Foods where a black female (cashier) will literally start making nasty comments about a white female customer even as she's right there. I said to myself, wow what is that all about, but it makes sense. I think some of this is generational though. In my more recent dealings with black females, I find that fewer of them seem to have that chip on their shoulder. They're less angry/resentful if you will and seem to just go with the flow, but in the past, when I have had one that gave me attitude, I had no problem saying that I wasn't putting up with their attitude. It was funny too because they would puff up, and I would repeat myself and then they would back down because they realized that their disposition was not going to get me riled up. If anything, they would look like the fools. I had one make the comment of "snub ass". I find it funny that because I'm mixed, the assumption is usually that I'm automatically stuck up, so they've already made a preconceived notion about me before one word comes out of my mouth. Once they see me and what I look like that's it, although as I said, of late there's been less friction other than that most recent incident. Well the part about looking like fools matters not (to them); as the ones that continue to harbor & hold that chip on their shoulder will do anything for attention anyway.... Being boisterous in a supermarket is so far above par for the course, it's to be expected for them to act that way, in the eyes of enough black men.... None of this matters because there is no sense of shame aimed their way (and that I have to blame on black men); women in general are gonna test waters & see what they can away with, for as long as they can get away with it.... Any male in a relationship in some way, shape, or form will realize that about his woman...... This is why it's important to check your woman EARLY in any relationship, I don't give a shit if it's a same-race relationship or an IR relationship.... As far as you not putting up with their attitude and these black women you've came in contact with standing down like that.... Lmao, I find that funny because had I attempted to check a black woman in a supermarket like that, I'd have all types of threats aimed my way, had my momma insulted, been called gay, etc. etc.... To sum it up, things would have escalated.... To many of em, black men are below black women; and *who is a black man to tell a black woman anything, when he doesn't have his shit in order* (collectively speaking)..... As far as this stuck up/snob bit, that's maybe how you feel, but that is not what these women are thinking about when they come in contact with some man that is not black.... What I'm saying is, you as a mixed man can be a stuck up, snob ass all day & that STILL won't value you lower than what they already deem their own race of man to be - A failure from jump..... Also, the disrespectful disposition is not intended to rile you up, it's to rile themselves up.... Lastly, yeah it's generational, b/c as I said in a prior post before, the black women that were duped (yes, duped) with 2nd wave feminism - actually believing white women were on their side with the lack of respect of black men & what not, when they didn't give a hot shit about black women's problems in the black household.... The generation of young black women today can't relate to any of that shit.... Since this is about relationships, I'll say this - The crabs in the barrel, ole shriveled up ass black women of yesterday tend to date out more for validation by another race of man, and to really stick it to the black man..... The young black women of today tend to date out, MUCH less for the reason of sticking it to some black men.... I actually feel sorry for young black women in today's times (for more reasons than one).... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B35 via Church Posted April 19, 2014 Share #538 Posted April 19, 2014 Its not always about being nice. You can be a gentlemen, but at the same time don't be a push-over. Don't agree to her every will. I have more to say but I'm honestly a bit lazy to type in more..lol. But anyway its annoying whenever the topic of "girls don't like nice guys" come up.. Most of the time the "nice guys" are just too-passive push-overs. Not in today's times, you can't..... It's antiquated advice, fam...... If you are thrown in the gentleman category by a woman, you are automatically thrown into the friend zone, at best.... Women these days don't really respect gentlemen anymore (even though they'll sit in their little pow wow's & claim oh how so great some guy is, and how much of a gentleman he is, yada yada yada).... Women get off on rhetoric, not facts & logic.... Being dubbed a gentleman in today's times is really a slick diss, and so many dudes are naive to it.... Shit, it took me years to realize that.... See here, "bad boys" are some of the biggest yes men out, but to a woman, they are not viewed as gentlemen.... I would have used the word respectful, instead of gentlemen, to make the point you're making with that..... As for Roadcruiser, dude comes off as one of those TFL (true forced loneliness) guys to me; whenever he talks about women, it's always about women not giving nice guys the play he feels they deserve.... Women have a need to be protected, can't just throw that fact to the wayside because nice guys don't get play from women that the bad boys do.... Not that I'm defending bad boys, but in too many cases (as you allude to), nice guys at the end of the simply don't get the job done..... I wouldn't say nice guys are just passive, but actually passive-aggressive - they tend to be overbearing, obsessive, control freaks also..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quill Depot Posted April 19, 2014 Share #539 Posted April 19, 2014 I'm not good at feeding attention, most girls dislike that nowadays. I want to be in a relationship and also have my freedom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B35 via Church Posted April 19, 2014 Share #540 Posted April 19, 2014 I'm not good at feeding attention, most girls dislike that nowadays. I want to be in a relationship and also have my freedom. A mature chick awaits you..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Via Garibaldi 8 Posted April 19, 2014 Share #541 Posted April 19, 2014 Well the part about looking like fools matters not (to them); as the ones that continue to harbor & hold that chip on their shoulder will do anything for attention anyway.... Being boisterous in a supermarket is so far above par for the course, it's to be expected for them to act that way, in the eyes of enough black men.... None of this matters because there is no sense of shame aimed their way (and that I have to blame on black men); women in general are gonna test waters & see what they can away with, for as long as they can get away with it.... Any male in a relationship in some way, shape, or form will realize that about his woman...... This is why it's important to check your woman EARLY in any relationship, I don't give a shit if it's a same-race relationship or an IR relationship.... As far as you not putting up with their attitude and these black women you've came in contact with standing down like that.... Lmao, I find that funny because had I attempted to check a black woman in a supermarket like that, I'd have all types of threats aimed my way, had my momma insulted, been called gay, etc. etc.... To sum it up, things would have escalated.... To many of em, black men are below black women; and *who is a black man to tell a black woman anything, when he doesn't have his shit in order* (collectively speaking)..... As far as this stuck up/snob bit, that's maybe how you feel, but that is not what these women are thinking about when they come in contact with some man that is not black.... What I'm saying is, you as a mixed man can be a stuck up, snob ass all day & that STILL won't value you lower than what they already deem their own race of man to be - A failure from jump..... Also, the disrespectful disposition is not intended to rile you up, it's to rile themselves up.... Lastly, yeah it's generational, b/c as I said in a prior post before, the black women that were duped (yes, duped) with 2nd wave feminism - actually believing white women were on their side with the lack of respect of black men & what not, when they didn't give a hot shit about black women's problems in the black household.... The generation of young black women today can't relate to any of that shit.... Since this is about relationships, I'll say this - The crabs in the barrel, ole shriveled up ass black women of yesterday tend to date out more for validation by another race of man, and to really stick it to the black man..... The young black women of today tend to date out, MUCH less for the reason of sticking it to some black men.... I actually feel sorry for young black women in today's times (for more reasons than one).... LMAO@checking your woman... I had to think back to an incident I had in Whole Foods with a black female cashier... She went from being courteous to going all out and saying that she wasn't anyone's slave and then walked away, all because I complained about being served poorly by her after she greeted me initially. I said f*ck it I'll pack my own things. I just found it absurd that she somehow made it into a race issue when it was about her having a terrible attitude and being unprofessional. That's the one thing that amazes me with some black chicks... Very unprofessional... The other day, I went to one of my regular café spots and ordered a double espresso and a pastry, and give her a $20.00 bill. She then says out of $20.00... Twenties... Twenties... Twenties... I suppose she was implying that I had money by repeating that, and I thought to myself okay, as it was rather comical... Then she takes my change and instead of just putting it in my hand, she makes a point to take her other hand and hold my hand as she puts the change and bills in it. Again I said to myself uh okay... I really don't like making contact with people like that, as I didn't feel it was necessary to give me my change in that matter. You know some people will just touch you and put their hands on you as if it's just perfectly fine. I usually get annoyed, but this time I let it slide since she was "nice" about it. I guess that was her way of "flirting"... LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Missabassie Posted April 20, 2014 Share #542 Posted April 20, 2014 I'm not good at feeding attention, most girls dislike that nowadays. I want to be in a relationship and also have my freedom. totally feel ya there... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realizm Posted April 22, 2014 Share #543 Posted April 22, 2014 I'm not good at feeding attention, most girls dislike that nowadays. I want to be in a relationship and also have my freedom. Well with experience and as you get older you should see a change with dating prospects. I had the same problem as a kid. My first girlfriend was at 17 years of age or something like that. So (easier said then done) focus on enjoy life and doing the things that you like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realizm Posted May 18, 2014 Share #544 Posted May 18, 2014 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T7SXPps0HlU&feature=player_detailpage Comment via youtube under my Google+ account: "Haha loved this. Its clear your love for each other is strong. Also very animated couple you two are made for each other. Wonderful sense of humor and totally on point. I guess as you are looking at my profile you can see I am mixed Asian myself from an IR marriage so to see that love is indeed still colorblind is a wonderful thing. You two Jung Won and Ty just made my day, you two are awesome! +1. This was the sequel I was waiting for, many thanks for the courage to post this video about your personal life. trust me many are smiling and rejoicing with you both as we speak, myself included." Love is colorblind, indeed. This is how it should be in a post civil rights movement world. And it definitely pertains to dating where people are mutally in love with one another despite what hate due to race exists in this country. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttcsubwayfan Posted May 30, 2014 Share #545 Posted May 30, 2014 I don't usually post in these kinds of threads, but there's a first time for everything, so why not. I'll cut straight to the point: anyone have any good tips for getting over a crush? I really don't want to call it an infatuation, because it sounds like one of those words self-righteous people would use, but for all intents and purposes I'll refer to it as that within the thread. I've had a couple of crushes over the past few years, but nothing that has made me feel the way I feel right now, and honestly I really don't see the need for a relationship at this point. Never mind that we barely know each other and probably don't have much in common, but the heart wants what it wants. I've tried Googling tips for getting over such things, but none of them have been even remotely helpful - least of all the suggestion that I find things I don't like about her (I can make my peace with the points that have come to me... ). Thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Around the Horn Posted May 31, 2014 Share #546 Posted May 31, 2014 I don't usually post in these kinds of threads, but there's a first time for everything, so why not. I'll cut straight to the point: anyone have any good tips for getting over a crush? I really don't want to call it an infatuation, because it sounds like one of those words self-righteous people would use, but for all intents and purposes I'll refer to it as that within the thread. I've had a couple of crushes over the past few years, but nothing that has made me feel the way I feel right now, and honestly I really don't see the need for a relationship at this point. Never mind that we barely know each other and probably don't have much in common, but the heart wants what it wants. I've tried Googling tips for getting over such things, but none of them have been even remotely helpful - least of all the suggestion that I find things I don't like about her (I can make my peace with the points that have come to me... ). Thoughts? Umm...Okay You like her BUT you don't want to ask her out and you want to get over it... The only tip I could give you wouldn't work here because you don't want it honestly I really don't see the need for a relationship at this point Either ask her out or very simply tell her how you feel... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttcsubwayfan Posted May 31, 2014 Share #547 Posted May 31, 2014 Well, I don't need a relationship (not at this age), and from what I've heard, it would be more of a burden than anything. Never mind that I have little faith in the concept of high school relationships as is. Trouble is, I have the confidence of a dead rat when it comes to girls. See, if I ended up falling for one of my female friends (of which I have had very few in my life, and none in the recent past) I'd assume it wouldn't be AS difficult to ask her out (but what do I know?) but as I mentioned, in this instance (and all previous ones, make no mistake) I barely know her, and I can just see her being eager to go out with some Joe Schmo who's exchanged a max of 10-15 sentences with her I remember the first time I told a girl I fancied her... the experience traumatized me for life "Infatuations" suck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Via Garibaldi 8 Posted June 1, 2014 Share #548 Posted June 1, 2014 Well, I don't need a relationship (not at this age), and from what I've heard, it would be more of a burden than anything. Never mind that I have little faith in the concept of high school relationships as is. Trouble is, I have the confidence of a dead rat when it comes to girls. See, if I ended up falling for one of my female friends (of which I have had very few in my life, and none in the recent past) I'd assume it wouldn't be AS difficult to ask her out (but what do I know?) but as I mentioned, in this instance (and all previous ones, make no mistake) I barely know her, and I can just see her being eager to go out with some Joe Schmo who's exchanged a max of 10-15 sentences with her I remember the first time I told a girl I fancied her... the experience traumatized me for life "Infatuations" suck. [Nelson, points]: Haha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttcsubwayfan Posted June 1, 2014 Share #549 Posted June 1, 2014 F**king hilarious, right??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Via Garibaldi 8 Posted June 1, 2014 Share #550 Posted June 1, 2014 F**king hilarious, right??? Indeed... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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